lovelylittlelizzy said: Look! I'm actually using this blog again! Anyways, I suppose I could've texted you, but I figured I'd tell you that our dearly beloved Modcloth not only currently has a huge sale that includes swimsuits, but should probably be putting even more on sale, what with the end of summer coming and all.
Woohoo!! Everyone follow LIZ!!!!
Thanks for the tip! Modcloth always makes me weep of lack of funds, but dayum do they have some cute stuff :P Also, gotta love the little stories…
Anonymous said: when you get married will you wear a wedding dress?
I’d most certainly love to! I’ve been thinking about this more recently, although marriage has got to be years from now, but yeah, I’d love one of those 3/4 sleeved, lacy, traditional Jewish wedding dresses. Just gotta find someone who’ll marry me it in it and someone to marry us with me in it! :P
Thanks for your questions, Mx. Anon!
Anonymous said: what do you wear to sleep?
Nothing, haha, who needs clothes when they sleep?
Not that I don’t have a really comfy piece of lingerie for when I need to night gown it up…. I think if you dig far enough back you can find it; it’s red.
Anonymous said: what do you wear swimming?
Heh, I’ve been wanting to get a cute one piece for the beach for a while, but I haven’t been able to just blow money on a nice one. As it is now, just dude swim trucks, I know, not very exciting…
saritasobrevive said: (I talked to you in your neighborhood about miniature tigers - I hang out a lot with Angela, Mark, Jess & Andrew across the street from you) OMG Ben! I saw you were gender-non-conforming in person but I didn't know you were THIS cool. Haha anyway I just started coming out as genderqueer like earlier this week haha
Oh yeah! I remember, you were on the porch across the street last week!
Haha, why thank you, Sarita :D Psyched to have a new GQ friend- We should hang out sometime, go do queer things!!
Also, do you follow the tumblr, genderoftheday? Highly recommended for gender discovery…sorta
Anonymous said: Thank you Ben. I'm a straight make but thanks to you I had the courage to buy my first ever dress. At the minute I'm only brave enough to wear it around the house. But if I hadn't found your blog I never could've taken this rep. :)
Congratulations!!! :D You’ll get more comfortable with the whole thing. Tell some good friends and go out with them for support. It’s a process, keep it up :)
Being told that I’m an inspiration, or that I give people confidence, never fails to make my day. I’m just a hairy queer who loathes pants and loves dresses- I never expected any of it to mean anything to anyone else; I’m rather glad it does :D
Anonymous said: Have you ever had a boyfriend?
I seem to have spaced on this anon a while ago! I have not, a few girlfriends here or there, but no boyfriend, which is a real shame, they sound pretty fun :) Why, you trying to audition? ;P
wahya-nvda said: I just went through your blog and love your style. I noticed you have issues finding shoes my friend works for breastformstore and they have a bunch of shoes online in bigger sizes for crossdressing. you should check them out.
As gorgeous as shoes from that site are, they’re faaaar out of my price range :( Thanks for the tip and the follow :D Nice tats!
hashtag-sorry said: You're so cute! I swear!!
Swear all you want an never let them stop you! ….Also you’re waaaay cuter :)
Anonymous said: CAN I PLEASE HAVE YOUR DRESSES THEYRE PERFECT I love you
hahaa! You’re perfect anon, and I love you! Which one do you want? Maybe I can point you it’s way! (also, there’s no perfect dress! Are you new? :P)